About marital status on VKontakte through the eyes of a woman. Statuses for those who are actively searching

What does the “actively searching” status mean? Why does one person list their marital status as the person they are engaged to, but that person's marital status is empty? It's time to find out these and many other interesting reasons for the virtual behavior of homo sapiens.

Statuses and quotes on social networks sometimes characterize us much more reliably than it might seem at first glance. “Actively searching,” as we understand it, is a very bright status. It expresses not only the literal meaning, but also the desire to attract attention. This is an attempt to improve your self-esteem. This status expresses the desire to feel “needed” in the virtual environment. Also, the status “actively searching” is often chosen as an anesthetic for mental wounds received during a recent dramatic breakup.

There is also a category “in passive search,” but on social networks it looks like “single” or “single.” Of course, this reflects, first of all, the legal, real status of a person, but the emotional background (or quality of relationships) that is hidden behind this simple phrase is impossible for a psychologist to ignore. Certainly, “single” and “single” are one of the more interesting categories among marital status statuses. For example, a girl is dating a guy, but not yet married. She reports that she is free, but in reality, as we understand, this is not the case.

It happens the other way around. A young woman does not live with her husband, say, due to a desperate lack of mutual understanding, but does not dare to change her “married” status. The chances of finding a more worthy alternative for creating family well-being are deliberately reduced by it. Life is truly a complicated thing.

What does it mean when he is “married”, but her column is empty? If this circumstance corresponds to the legal situation, then, you will agree, this is much more serious than “dating” or “has a girlfriend.” The man is very pleased and is ready to shine with this status to the whole world, but it seems that his lady does not share such jubilation. Why? The dominant in the family is in clawed hands with a bright red manicure, and the woman is not proud, does not value the person she is married to. And he, the one you can sympathize with, is happy that he has such a great wife. At best, she doesn't share his love for social media, although this is a weak attempt to explain the phenomenon.

He writes “dating”, she writes “single”. He shines, and she is in passive search. But when two young people have mutual statuses of “married” and “married”, but they have not yet been legally defined, then perhaps they will start a family, yes, such a development of events has a very high percentage of probability. But if this status suddenly disappears or attempts to turn into “dating,” then, most likely, the castles in the air have come to an end; this is an alarming signal for the relationship (not to mention the prospect of starting a family).

There are married girls with the status “single” (as well as married men with a status on their personal page that is atypical for this position). They do not want to advertise relationships that do not bring them spiritual harmony. We can conclude that a lot can be hidden behind marital status, and what exactly can be found out only through communication with a person.

If you are actively searching for your soulmate and want to find exactly your person as quickly as possible, then it’s time to choose the appropriate status for your page on social networks. Even if you have never written anything yourself or even tried to compose anything, we know how to find the most suitable status. We offer you many statuses that will brightly and colorfully help you talk about your searches, and therefore make them more effective. Don’t be afraid to write and talk about your search for love, because the more people you know, the more chances you have to meet someone. Your guests (especially those of the opposite sex) will see your status, take it as a green light to meet you, and who knows, maybe this is how you will find your destiny. Good luck with your search!

I'm looking for a boy with blue eyes, black eyelashes, a beautiful body, a 3-story house, a bank account and no mother-in-law)))

On my friend’s page: “Marital status: everything is complicated with My Brains”

Marital status: actively getting rid of the old and unnecessary...

Are you actively searching again?))) finally find me, I'm tired of waiting)))

In her contact, her marital status is not married, and no one has yet seen her actively searching, and all because she simply still loves him...

Not married, but has a friend. But everything is complicated with him, so I’m actively searching!)))

Why is there no marital status in contact: “when I’m drunk, I love everyone”?

Actively searching. What am I looking for? I'm actively looking for another one. With a vanilla-sugar look. Delicate caramel scent. A dazzlingly bright smile. And with a kind heart that will love me. So stupid and strange...

What is it like to be “Actively Searching”? Running down the street, pestering men, asking them to “fall in love with me, please!”

I just love autumn, children’s orbits and I don’t know how to be alone. I will definitely find the shoes of my dreams, the man of my life and myself...

Now it is fashionable to do this: During strong quarrels, remove the joint marital status in contact and put a very low phrase in the active search.

I just came up with it in my spare time... the marital status is “engaged”, but “married”, and my wife has a boyfriend, so “everything is complicated”, but in general I’m “actively searching”... ahaha... life situation. My personal one.

In an active search for a charming uncle doctor, or a nice nurse... well, at worst, maybe an orderly with a sense of humor.

Man: *search engine, but I found a guy... tall, handsome, kind, sweet, rich, generous...* search engine: *can’t find a lip roller?!*

But I’m not looking for my soul mate... I was born whole!!!))

I put it “actively searching” to find my head...

In an active search for happiness and love!!! :)))

I want to find true love... Who won't say that everything is fine... But will just hug you and say, even if everything sucks, I'm with you! Who, during a quarrel, will not say sorry, it’s my fault... But he will silently come up and say: stupid, I love you!

Marital status: actively searching. Oh my God, he's actively searching. Good luck honey. Don't get lost!

Stupid phrase “In active search”.. It’s you running through the streets and shouting: “Where are you, my soul mate?” or you go into a cafe and yell: Hello, and here I am, looking for a guy!

“She has a marital status in contact: she is not married, and no one has yet seen her actively searching, and all because she just still loves him...” It was precisely so that no one knew about my love that I put sp “in actively searching..."

Beautiful girls are not actively searching, we are only unmarried

I want to fall in love....I'm looking for a victim...

New acquaintances... easy flirting... crazy love - what else do you need?!))).

Girls, why every time we change our marital status, we write: “I’m starting my life over!”... yy! =)) let’s write: “one guy has left, we’ll find new ones!”

Why do some people not have a marital status?? Yes, because Durov has not yet come up with the line I run for... or I sleep with...

What is love for us now? Marital status in contact, a bunch of photos in the album “me and my beloved”, a wall painted like “I love you”, comments from friends that you are a great couple, but no one really cares what’s going on there..

Marital status: actively getting rid of everything unnecessary

Marital status: actively searching. Go away, Lord, he is actively searching. Good luck honey. Don't get lost!

I'm looking for beautiful legs... To be taken into good hands :-D

In the search for new relationships, the old ones are already worn out to holes))

Manyakiii! perverted!! I'm ready :D

"Actively searching" for brains...

New photos from nightclubs, new girl friends, actively searching, with a daring status... mmm... who are you trying for?

Today at the university I wrote an application for admission... in the marital status column I wrote “actively searching”... PPC is all contact...

Actively searching, but I have a friend, everything is complicated with him, so I’m not married...

Today at the university I wrote an application for admission... in the marital status column I wrote “actively searching”

Why is there no status on VKontakte “in Inactive search”, but only a status “in active search”... You might think that I’m running through the streets and ACTIVELY LOOKING for a guy....

Sometimes you really miss a pair of warm hands, beloved eyes, tender lips... You really want someone to hold you close, look tenderly into your eyes and gently whisper: “I love you.”

Do you know who I need? The one who won’t ask if he can kiss me, but will just take me and kiss me; the one who won’t ask if he can see me, but will say: “I’m waiting. Come out!”

Yesterday I went to the doctor and heard from him a terrible diagnosis from which people die... Loneliness... And there is only one cure for it - love... I want to find my love...

VKontakte statuses. [everything is complicated], [single], [actively searching], was it really so difficult to make the status [nobody_fucking_needed] or [not looking for anyone]?

In an active search...happiness..

I asked. Saw. Loved it. You walk in, and there’s your marital status, married with three children!)))

And why is there no status “in HYPERactive search”?

Fuck off! I'm actively looking for a JOB

Many guys choose the second half based on the principle of buying a product in a store: “Oh, beautiful packaging, I should try it!” And then they are surprised by “indigestion.” So you need to look at the composition! Although the “date of manufacture” is also important!)

And out of habit, I click near the spa...but nothing happens...your station won’t turn on...well, yes, I have an active search..

If I'm actively searching, it doesn't mean that I'm looking for a new relationship, maybe I'm just looking for someone I lost

Of course, you can change your marital status in contact, but you will never change it in your heart...

If I'm actively searching, it doesn't mean that I'm looking for a new relationship, maybe I'm just looking for someone I lost.

In active search, what am I looking for? I'm actively looking for a jerk with a vanilla-sugar look, a delicate caramel smell, a dazzlingly bright smile and a kind heart that will love me. so stupid and strange.

I’m sitting stupidly... stupidly smoking... stupidly I don’t want to drink... my mood has gone to hell... And I almost forgot! Actively searching...

Actively searching... What am I looking for? I'm actively looking for an idiot with a vanilla-sugar look, a delicate caramel smell, a dazzlingly bright smile and a kind heart who will love me...so stupid and strange..

Set a positive status. Active search. Put on a smile. Float on the street. Laugh in the faces of your enemies. And dream... always dream... dreams can come true.

I will buy a green-eyed brunette no older than 88 with all the bells and whistles. Do not offer broken, painted or with a trailer!

Marital status: actively searching. Well, what are you so actively looking for there? here I am!

Beautiful girls are not actively searching, we are only unmarried.

What is it like to be “actively searching”? Running down the street, pestering men, asking “well, fall in love with me, please!”

A young man, without bad habits, is looking for a girl who will teach him these habits!!!

I'm looking for happiness, and Google won't help here...

In active search - this is a mild definition of that period of life when you just fuck with everyone.

Life used to be... couples fight, have rows, sort things out, and then separate, but now it’s enough to change your marital status to “actively searching”...

Why doesn’t my contact have a status in “passive search”? I kind of want to, but I’m too lazy to look :)

Everything is fine with me: I’m unmarried, I don’t have a friend, everything is not complicated for me, I’m not actively searching... I’m just like a cat that lives on its own

He is actively searching....and I continue to suffer and hope that he will return....I probably love him very much.

In active search - this is a mild definition of that period of life when you just fuck with everyone.

Marital status: actively searching. Oh my God, he’s actively searching. Good luck dear, make sure you don’t get lost.

When you apply for a job and write in the marital status column in the application form in an active search, then this is already a sign that you need to close the contact.

Oh, not married?? Then I'm...actively searching!

Marital status: standby)

What does a modern girl do after breaking up with her boyfriend? She frantically thinks about what status to write in the contact so that he will be offended.

The relationship between a man and a woman has always been the subject of debate among many scientists. Finding information about different forms and types of relationships for everyone is not difficult.

Recently, social networks have helped us decide for ourselves the type of relationship with our partner. All girls like to put some specific marital status on VK, but not all guys. Today we would like to talk about Vk’s marital status and its types.

• So, marital status is “married/single”, “married/not married”. With this marital status everything is clear. People who love each other decided to start a family and consolidate their relationship by marriage. After all, marriage is, in any case, always good (both for the couple themselves and for the state). This family situation always causes affection. But there are some funny cases here too. When you go to the page of some Wild Cat, and see that she is married to some “Boy from the Area”. You look at their pages and with a smile on your face you realize that they are both schoolchildren, and moreover, they study in the eighth grade. Probably half of the married or married friends on VKontakte are just child's play. Well, maybe not half, but a quarter.
• As for the position “not married”, this is, in principle, the same as in “active search”, since, in this case, users do not indicate in any way that they have a soul mate. And other users in social network consider them free. But, perhaps, the situation is that “there is a friend, a girlfriend,” with whom everything is complicated, and in order not to put the position “everything is complicated,” they put the position “not married (not married).” Also an option.
• Let's move on! Marital status: “has a boyfriend (girlfriend).” This situation implies either that the couple is just beginning their relationship, or that they have no serious intentions for the future. Also, for some, this position means an open relationship. For everyone - their own.
• There is also the marital status “Dating…”. It’s a bit similar to the “there is a friend (girlfriend)” situation. Just no open relationship.
• Marital status “engaged” - usually this position is given to those couples who love each other, perhaps live together, and who are thinking about a future together. In this case, marriage is either not considered at all, or the guy has already proposed to his beloved and they are getting married soon.
• And the last one is the marital status “everything is complicated (everything is complicated with...).” This position is not always clear, since it is impossible to understand what is in a person’s head. It is possible that the couple had a fight, and one of them decided in this way (by changing his marital status) to tell everyone about it. In general, we would not advise you to put your marital status in such a situation; why bring quarrels out of public view?
• Marital status: “actively searching.” This marital status is mainly chosen by either those users who are confident in themselves, or, conversely, who are very shy. When you put yourself in this position, be prepared for new acquaintances, friendship offers and everything else.

First, let's answer the question: what is a joint venture VK? Dada, this is exactly how the young audience likes to abbreviate this concept. WITH family n position VK Ontakte is, just like in our everyday lives, the status of relationships with the opposite sex, or the lack thereof.

For men the following provisions:

• Single;
• I am dating\I have a girlfriend;
• Engaged;
• Married;
• In love;
• It's Complicated;
• Actively searching.

All statuses except the first and last require the presence of a partner, that is, if the account owner chooses one of the remaining statuses, he will be given a choice from all his friends of the opposite sex. If the partner confirms their marital status, it will appear on both pages. I’ll tell you how to confirm your marital status a little later.

If the user does not select anything, or to be precise, he selects the “Not selected” item, then the marital status will not be shown on the page.

For the female audience, the choice is limited to the following statuses:

• Single;
• I'm dating/I have a friend;
• Engaged;
• Married;
• In love;
• It's Complicated;
• Actively searching.

To set or change your marital status, you need to click on the menu on our account page "ed."(editing). After that on new page All our data will appear: First Name, Last Name, Date of Birth, Gender, etc.

To select the desired status, simply click opposite the “Marital status” cell and select the required parameter. After that, click on the “Save” button at the bottom of the page. To check, go to “My Page” and check, if everything is correct, then leave it. If we want to change, we start the procedure again.

How to confirm marital status in VK

After you choose the status that requires the presence of a partner. On the editing page, under the list of all family provisions, the inscription “awaiting confirmation from ...” will appear.

Partner confirmation is required for all couple statuses except the In Love\In Love status

In turn, our partner will have an additional inscription on the main information editing page: “Ivan Ivanov is in love with you.” To confirm this status, you must select the same position as your partner and it will appear on your page.

Marital statuses may not match, if one selects “Engaged to ....,” and the other “Married\Married to..”, then this will be displayed on the page of each of them.

How to remove or hide VK marital status

If for some reason you are tired of this whole “Santa Barbara” with all the relationships, then it is possible to remove the joint venture. To do this, you need to stop at the first status among the statuses - “Not selected” and save it. After this, the corresponding line will not appear on your page.

To hide your marital status from prying eyes, you need to set up privacy. To do this, go to the “My Settings” menu - the “Privacy” tab. The first point, “Who can see the basic information of my page,” is exactly what we need. Let's take a quick look at each option:

1. All users - SP is visible to absolutely all registered users;
2. Friends only - the SP is shown only to our friends;
3. Friends and friends and friends - I don’t think it’s worth explaining;
4. Only I can admire this. the position will be only you;
5. Everything except - here you can add any of your friends;
6. Some friends is, in my opinion, the best option if you want to narrow down the list of those who will be able to see your relationship. You just need to select friends from the general list.

Find out marital status on VKontakte

Even if marital status is hidden, it can be found out. Now I'll tell you how. For this we need
the full First and Last Name of our object and nothing else.

1. Enter your First and Last Name in the search, in the people section;
2. If the person we need does not appear on the list, then we enter clarifying information (City, University, Age, etc.) until we find the “object” we need;
3. Now we look on the right side in the advanced search settings for a choice by marital status;
4. We begin to sort through the joint ventures in order;
5. If a person disappears from the list, it means he has a different status, we carry out this procedure until we find out his family status;
6. Profit.

Change marital status to your own

A few years ago, with the help of some manipulations with the page code, you could create your own family. situation, but this method no longer works. But you can use another trick - to be in love with “Administration”, “Pavel Durov” or “Deleted”.

Not selected.
It’s okay when a man has no idea that a woman has anything to do with him... But when a woman herself cannot understand with whom she sleeps, is “friends,” dating, engaged or married, this is too much. Angelic creatures, make up your mind quickly! Don't fool other men's heads!
It happens that you, dear girls, do not want other people to know something about your personal life. And you do this for two main reasons. Or you don't want your lovers to understand that they are not the only ones in your life. Or you are so confident in yourself that you simply don’t give a damn what your friends think about your marital status. You don't care what happens in your friends' personal lives, do you? So your friends don’t care about you as much as you don’t care about them.

Married/Single. Married/Single.
The fun begins when some Manechka Sweet Goddess ends up married to a Purely Concrete Boy in the Area. You look at their pages and realize that they are both in the eighth grade of your former school, that is, they are no more than 14 years old.
I love bikers. And I don’t hide it. And bikers love their iron horses. And they often love them to such an extent that you open the page and there Alexey Frolov is married to a Honda CBR 600 RR. Moreover, the bikers choose the gender of the motorcycle themselves... And his girl, so unhappy, leaves graffiti for him on the wall: “I love you, Pupsik. Call me". Then you open the Honda CBR 600 RR page, and in its activity it says: “I want catazza!” or “I love my husband.” And on the wall of the “iron lady” there are comments from other bikers: “Baby, you are magnificent, I dream about you.” And you won’t see such comments on the page of a real biker girl.
But seriously, “single” is the same as in “actively searching”, because in this case the girl does not indicate in any way whether she has a boyfriend. And other men consider her free. Or the girl’s marital status is “not married”, although “there is a friend”, but with him “everything is complicated”, therefore “not married”.

I have a friend/I have a girlfriend.
Men, are you having sex with your girlfriend? If “yes,” then she is not your friend. She is either your lover or your girlfriend. But not just a friend. They don't sleep with friends. No, of course, it happens, friendly group sex happens, but everyone knows their place in it. And if she is just a friend for you, that means she can start having sex with another man at any time. By contact. Or in real life.
Are you having sex with someone other than your “girlfriend”? If your answer is “no,” then it would be more correct to put Anton Kotik Simple meets Glafira Bitch Painted. And if “yes,” then why bet that you have a girlfriend? So that each of your many “friends” thinks that your marital status is about her?

Meets with...
Everything is clear here. It immediately became so boring... It makes you want to yawn, doesn’t it?

Engaged/Engaged.
When two straight girls find themselves engaged to each other, it gives men a lot to think about...

It's Complicated. Everything is complicated with...
Men love this formulation much more than women. What is so complicated going on in their heads that they couldn’t choose anything from all their previous marital situations?
Dear girls, if your boyfriend says on VKontakte that “everything is complicated” for him or that everything is complicated with you, don’t worry! You shouldn't be concerned about his marital status at all. Let him write what he wants. If you are beautiful, smart, sexy, he should be concerned about your marital status. Select the “not selected” option - let your lovers never know about each other’s existence! Write that you are “single”: on the one hand, this is the absolute truth if you are not officially married, on the other hand, let other men think that you are not dating anyone. Put “have a friend” - let him guess who your friend is? Maybe you are “friends” with all the men on VKontakte. Friendship is wonderful. Choose that you are engaged to your best friend - let him know that she is better and more important to you than him. And finally, put “actively searching” - let it know that you have a choice. You deserve better. You choose. Competition is good for men. The strongest wins. Better yet, bet that you are dating, engaged or married to a Yamaha YZF-R6 - let him envy you.

Actively searching.
This item is chosen either by very confident girls who understand that a man, regardless of his marital status, seeing this status, will want to get to know them. Or shy people who, for some reason, just can’t find a partner in real life.
But the most interesting thing is when a girl’s marital status is “single,” although she “has a friend,” but with him “everything is so complicated” that she is “actively searching.” And the “friend” has everything so complicated in his head that he doesn’t even mind that she is “actively searching.”

When two loving people begin to quarrel, sort things out, or break up, then their marital status on VKontakte, with a difference of no more than half an hour in the contact news, undergoes all possible changes. It looks something like this:
"The Fairytale Prince is engaged to the Fairytale Princess."
"The Fairytale Prince meets the Fairytale Princess."
"The Fairytale Prince has a girlfriend."
“The Fairy Tale Prince has no chosen marital status.”
"The fairytale prince is married to a Honda CB 400."
And then again “The Fairytale Prince meets the Fairytale Princess.”
And so on ad infinitum.
And most importantly, everyone is so worried, worried when they read this in the news...